missing and grieving a lost child

Grieving the One

Written by Susan Noyes Anderson on . Posted in Death and Grief Poems

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I chart my course in life with words
that rise up like the northern star
and lead me, yet my words fall short
of lifting me to where you are.

I feel the right phrase draw you close
in certain moments, few and fleeting.
But the full verse oft escapes me,
both the message and the meaning.

Thus the mightiness of pen
falls to the sword of endless grief.
My heart is left to seek acceptance,
but I find no sure relief.

Instead, I tread familiar halls
made foreign by your absence there,
gathering three living children,
grieving one we could not spare.

I enter rooms and mourn your presence,
stolen from the family mix…
dine in restaurants you can’t frequent,
party of five that should be six.

Such unsound ground. Can I map it?
Will my words, my heart, come through?
Love won’t let me down; I know it.
I will find my way to you.

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My son has been gone four years now. The grieving doesn’t really get easier; you just get a little bit better at carrying it, a little more accustomed to bearing it. If this poem resonated with you, you might also connect with “My Heart Is a Google Drive” and “Grief, the Bridge.”

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